Six Stone Love Test

How do we know that we love enough to send in our
side by side in the direction of a lifetime, the loyalty to the
perfect? How can we believe that our love is just cooked
tied for the marriage oath and promise to adjoining lifetime
until death separates?

First, the examination to feel something together.
True love to be together, give, hand over hand.
've Been thinking that the other party, not self-reflection.
If you read something, you have to think, I want to
share this with hurt? If you plan something,
there you only think about what you want to do, or
what will be fun the other party? As Herman Oeser, a
German writer once said, "They want a happy
own, do not marry. Because of that marriage is important in making
the other happy. - That they want to understand the other,
Do not marry. Because that is important here understand
partner. "So the first criterion is:

"What we can feel the same thing? Do I want to become
happy or make the other happy? "

Second, the power of examination.
I received a letter from a fall in love, but are
unstable heart. He had read somewhere where that weight
someone will be reduced if the person is genuinely fall in love.
Although he devote all their own feelings of love, he does not
lose weight and this is a worrying heart. Indeed
correct, that the experience it can also affect the situation
physical. But in the long-term true love will not eliminate
you strength; even vice versa will give strength and power
New on you. Love will meet you with the exhilaration and
kreaktif you make, and want to produce more.
The second criterion:

"What we love to give new strength and energy to meet our
creative, or the love we had the strength and energy
we? "

Third, the Test award.
True love means also uphold the other. A
She may admire a bachelor, when he saw play
ball and strike many goals. But if he asked himself,
"I wish he did as the father of sons?", since
it often becomes negative. A youth may admire a
girls, who are seen dancing. But when he asked the
themselves, "whether I wanted him as a child from the mother-son?"
She was probably will be changed in the eyes. The question is:

"What we really have a high appreciation to
The other? What I'm proud of the pasanganku? "

Fourth, the customs examination.
In a day of a European girl who is betrothed to come
I. He is very worried, "I really love my fiancee.," he said,
"I do not hold him eat apples." Full understanding of laughter
meeting room. "I accept other people with
habitat. Do not marry based on the installment understand, and that
customs will be changed later in the day. Likely
is welcome there. You should receive a reply as the
with all the customs and cons. The question is:

"Are we just love each other or like each other?"

Fifth, the examination fracas.
When the pair came the Professional Footballer want to marry, I always
asking them whether they had a really contend
- Not only form a small difference in opinions, but really
like the war. Often, they said, "Do not ever, pack,
we love each other. "I say to them," Bertengkarlah
first - then you will wed. "The problem is certainly not
pertengkarannya, but the potential for mutual peace again. Capabilities
This must be trained and tested before marrying. Not sex, but the touchstone
pertengkaranlah which is the experience of the "required" before
intermarry. The question is:

"Can we forgive each other and each other compliant?"

Sixth, examination time.
Professional Footballer pair came to me to dikawinkan. "It does
long you love each other? "Ask me." Of the three, almost four
week, "they answered. This is too short. According to my minimum one
One year. Two years better. There are good for each other
met, not just on holidays or days of week
array of dress, but also at work in the life
day-to-day, time has not been groomed, or razor, still put T-shirt,
not wash your face, hair still mess, in a tense atmosphere
or dangerous. There is an ancient maxim, "Do not marry before the
experience summer and winter together with the reply. "
If you hesitate about feelings abashedly, the time will be
provide certainty. Ask:

"What is the love we have to go through the summer and winter? Already
long enough we know each other? "

And allow me to give a clear conclusions. Sex is not
touchstone for love.
"If a pair of young Professional Footballer want to have sexual relations to know
whether they love each other, need to be asked on them, "So
small love you? "If both thinking," Later tonight we
must have sex - if not pasanganku will think that I
do not love him or that he does not love me, "the fear
will likely have failed to scare enough that the success of the experiment.
Sex is not a touchstone for love, for sex will be destroyed when
tested. Try forged observation of the brothers themselves in their own time
brother went to sleep. Relatives mengobservasi themselves, and not
can sleep. Relatives or sleeping, and can no longer be mengobservasi
themselves. The same is the case with sex as a touchstone
to love. Relatives test, after that no longer want to love. Or
brother love, and not to test. For the sake of it
own, I need to restrain himself physically states
to be inserted in the triangular dynamics of marriage.